Divorce rates may be down in the U.S. from their all-time high in the 1980s (although so are marriage rates), but the popularity of divorce seems to be on the rise. You can find funny divorce cards, tote bags with sarcastic quotes (“Whoever said money can’t buy happiness clearly never paid for a divorce”), and even water bottle stickers encouraging men to proclaim their “respect for the ex.” Divorce parties reached an all-time high in 2023, the same year best-selling author and poet Maggie Smith released her divorce memoir, You Could Make This Place Beautiful, which was followed by a slew of popular divorce memoirs in 2024. The trend gained notice in the New York Times, Glamour, Washington Post, and The Atlantic, among others. While each couple’s story is unique, they are bound by a common theme: These female authors view marriage as an unfair situation in which they can neither be fully themselves, nor fully explore and use their gifts and talents.
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