Category: Marriage/Family

How to Help Your City Become More Father-Friendly

Meet the Rapid Ethnographic Assessment of Programs (REAPS) for Fathers. It’s a process created by National Fatherhood Initiative® (NFI) that draws on an anthropological research method that’s particularly helpful when you have limited time and resources and need to act quickly.

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Liberal Feminism is Antithetical to Fostering Healthy Relationships

In the months leading up to my 40th birthday, contemplating this statement, I found myself overwhelmed by despair. I was single and childless, and couldn’t figure out how it had happened. I had scrupulously followed the life path set out for women of my generation. I had gone to university and excelled; I had spent time “finding myself” in foreign countries; I had launched a professional career and worked grueling hours to achieve success; I had paid off colossal student loans; I had moved to bigger, more cosmopolitan cities to pursue better opportunities; I had “worked on” myself. All the while, believing that the rest—marriage, children, a home life—would fall into place when the timing was right. When none of that materialized, I felt utterly adrift. 

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It’s Time to Restore Fading Families

Utah, Idaho, and Wyoming all share common borders and something else that matters more.

According to data the Census Bureau gathered in 2020, these were three of the four states that had the highest percentages of households headed by married couples of the opposite sex.

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Marriage Should Not Be the Elephant in the Room

Making the case for two parents is a good starting point, but we would connect the dots to add that the largest benefits come from being married. If the two-parent ideal matters, marriage is the support that helps two different people stick together to do that. This is because marriage is a legal and social institution with a certain set of norms and expectations that increases the likelihood of relationship trust, happiness, and longevity. In other words, marriage is a kind of social technology. Or, as The Atlantic’s Derek Thompson puts it, marriage is like “social fitness.” Without marriage, the two-parent ideal becomes less achievable and less durable, and parents become more lonely and less happy.

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